Why does a good God allow suffering?
Suffering is one of those things that challenges our concept of a good and wise God. This is because we fail to understand just who God is. He is infinite in all His attributes. That means infinite goodness, infinite wisdom and infinite sovereignty. A God like this cannot help but do things (and allow things) that are the very best, for the very most number of people and for His own glory. As created creatures we cannot know the mind of God so we cannot understand how a certain tragedy fits into His sovereign plan and will. Even when we do hold this high view of God suffering is hard to accept, but He promised that He works all things for the good of those who love Him. Through suffering He refines our faith, deepens our hope, and advances the gospel all for His glory. What others mean for evil, God can turn for good. One day He will wipe every tear, and the present pain will not compare with the coming glory. See Romans 8:18–30; 1 Peter 1:6–9; Genesis 50:20.
How can I trust God in my suffering?
Start with who God is. This is important. God is infinitely good, infinitely wise and infinitely sovereign. He knows what He is doing in your pain. Trusting Him requires knowing that even when it feels like He is against us He is indeed on our side. This is the struggle Job had after God allowed everything to be taken from Him. We can morn faithfully and we can lament as Job did. God may never tell us why, but He is worth of our love and devotion at the end of the day. Teach His promises to your soul. Open His word daily. Pray honestly – telling God what and how you feel. Remember the cross. If He gave His Son for you, He will not abandon you. See Psalm 56:3–4; Isaiah 41:10; Romans 8:31–32; 1 Peter 5:7. I have been here. I know the pain. The article “When Your World is Turned Upside-down” tells the story of my own suffering and pain and how God brought me through it.
How does Christ comfort us in trials?
Jesus is our merciful High Priest who knows our weakness. He suffered, was tempted as we are. He knows how frail we are as humans. That is why he draws near us in pain and trials with real help, not mere sympathy. By His Spirit He comforts us so that we may eventually comfort others. Through Him we have access to the throne of grace, where we find mercy and help in time of need. See 2 Corinthians 1:3–5; Hebrews 4:14–16.
Can suffering grow my faith?
Yes. God uses trials like a refiner’s fire. As metals are heated impurities surface. This is the dross and it is skimmed away. What remains is purer – in the case of our Christian life it is a stronger and steadier faith. Pressure reveals what we have been trusting besides Jesus. Control. Money. Approval. Comfort. Suffering shakes our life and we feel it. That shaking is God’s mercy. It shows those idols cannot hold us, and it turns us back to Christ. As we endure, the Spirit pours God’s love into our hearts. God is not trying to crush you. He is purifying you so your faith will shine at the revelation of Jesus. See James 1:2–4; Romans 5:3–5; 1 Peter 1:6–7; Malachi 3:2–3.